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Tuesday, October 05, 2004

 
Today's the day the American Idols perform in Singapore.

I'm sitting here in my room with the aircon on sobbing as i type this. Boo hoo..

I'm saddened by the fact that people like Jean and Glenn can be at Esplanade cheering for the likes of:


JPL, Diana, Camile and Fantasia.

Not to mention Latoya, Jennifer and Jasmine. -shudders-

I hope the audience dun get hurt, cos i swear, everytahm Jasmine sings, its painful.


Innnnnn-separable... Thats how we'll always be, inseparable.

Doesn't she look like she's in extreme pain?

Click on the picture to experience pain at its maximum.

Oh wells, no use fretting over it.

In my extreme boredom, i've created and answered my every own GeePee question.

Enjoy.

"Anniversaries are the most important dates in a relationship." How far do you agree to this statement?

An anniversary is a date that signifies the length of the relationship over a certain time period. It can come in the form of months or years, and is usually the most important date in a relationship as lovers usually do romantic things for each other on their anniversaries.

Anniversaries are important dates as they are seen as a benchmark of the relationship. How much you love each other depends on the number of anniversaries that a couple has gone through together. The more time that you spend together with a single person, the more anniversaries you would have. Thus, with every anniversary past, the relationship progresses in terms of stability and security.

Anniversaries are also important in relationships as it is usually seen as a day to do something romantic for each other. Lovers usually buy gifts for each other or take one another out for a romantic dinner as a sign of remembering the anniversary and its significance. If one forgets the date, there might be the question of being "serious" about the relationship. Thus, anniversaries are seen as important dates in a relationship.

Sometimes, a couple may be deeply in love, but arguing frequently. An anniversary would be a good time to take a step back and try to tolerate each other's flaws for an argument-free day. Anniversaries can also be a good time to kiss and make up for the past year's disagreements and anniversaries hold a promise for the following year to come. Thus, anniversaries are important dates to reaffirm love for each other.

An anniversary also let lovers have an excuse to celebrate and spend lavishly on their partners. It is generally considered alright for normal dates to consist of cheap hawker food but on an anniversary, there should be no qualms about spending on more expensive food and gifts as anniversaries only come annually and at the couple's own personal date and thus should be spent doing something special.

Anniversaries can also be seen as the most important dates in a relationship by the way one plans his schedule around the date. One would try to cancel or rearrange all his appointments so as to spend the day with his partner. Also, one saves up money months before the anniversary so as to be able to buy expensive presents like jewelry or flowers for their loved ones. This shows that anniversaries are treated as an important date in a relationship.

However, anniversaries are not the most important dates in a relationship. This is because, if both parties are truly in love, they do not need specific dates for celebration. Everyday spent together would be a celebration of their love. Couples could buy gifts for each other and send flowers even if it was a normal date. Outings would be filled with laughter and this would even make dining at the cheapest place a joy. Thus, anniversaries are not the most important dates as everyday could be a celebration if they truly love each other.

Loving couples do not need anniversaries to prove their love. There are many couples out there who have had ten or twenty anniversaries but hate the sight of each other. On the other hand, there are couples with only five or less anniversaries behind them and are still deeply attached. This shows that the number of anniversaries are not a good indication of their love, thus anniversaries are not an important date in a relationship.

Also, anniversaries are not the most important dates in a relationship as, to some couples, it does not make a difference if it is not celebrated and it is taken as just another day. Its not that they do not love each other, but that they are either just not that romantic, or they have a hectic working life. Thus, anniversaries are not the most important dates in a relationship.

Therefore, although anniversaries are important dates in a relationship, they are not the most important dates as everyday could be a celebration of love for each other if the couple is truly in love.


Happy Anniversary!

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I wonder if anyone actually finished reading this. I'm sure no one did.

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